Testimonials
Testimonials
Check out what our clients have to share about changes and transformations, thanks to ‘Shifting Lives’!
Note: All the names have been changed to maintain confidentiality of our clients. The focus is on the issues and challenges addressed through our approach at ‘Shifting Lives’.
Jenifer (Name Changed)
From mum about her 10 year old son who was diagnosed with ASD, We’ve been seeing his paediatrician since he was 18 months old and she’s always wanted to see him every six months. *** has said only the words “Yes and no” to her, always sat straight with his hands in his lap, eyes down. Today he sat sprawled on the chair, nattered away like a monkey and had not only the Paediatrician in total shock but all the nurses and staff. “I saw you just in January?! What on earth have you been doing these past 8 months!!” *** looks her full in the face and replies “Oh this and that, shooting hoops and eating pizza”
Michel (Name Changed)
In the beginning, I was forced to find professional help. My partner insisted I wasn't 'normal' and that I needed to find help. We started by both having individual sessions and when ready, David brought us together for couples sessions. After our second visit, we went home but only one of us would do our 'homework'. I chose to continue seeing David and with his help, I figured out I was a much stronger person than I'd realized. I came to the conclusion that I wasn't happy with how my children and I were being treated - I had finally found my voice and we deserved more. We spent time working on finding my reasons as to why I insisted on staying in a relationship when I wasn't happy. David, you were so patient with me as I dealt with all my emotions and I'm so thankful you could help me through this. I can finally now smile and truly mean it. Thank you
Melissa (Name Changed)
I use Shifting Lives for my pre-teen and teenager. They feel like they are checking in with a friend, but David has worked through countless problems with them and given them more confidence in themselves. I think it is important for young people to have mentors that they can share their feelings with and be heard.
Oliver (Name Changed)
He understands what it is like to be a teenager and blind.
Alex (Name Changed)
I enjoy talking to David about my disability and what it means for me as a kid at school.
Tina (Name Changed)
I can highly recommend David from my own personal and family experience. I tracked David down after a few years as I wanted to thank him. David is blind but this should be no deterrent rhyme or reason not to use or experience David's services. He is highly sensory, intuitive, and intelligent. He reads people well through dialogue & sound. My marriage and family unit was a disaster, my 2 sons were struggling through no fault of their own. My then-husband booked a family counseling session because it had to be his choice. Over weeks David chose to see us as a family unit, then I with the boys, husband and the boys, the boys on their own and husband and wife on their own and individually.
He listened, drew diagrams, explained his professional perception, and paraphrased our story back to us. I was sitting talking to David on my own, at one stage he told me to lift my head when speaking, I said I was looking up. He replied 'No you're not. I thought 'WHAT' this guy can't see me, but he was correct. It was at this time I was assured we had the best man on the job. No bias, no judgment, we were encouraged to work together and individually for the best possible outcome. I was at my lowest point, with no self-esteem, no voice, personally crushed, concerned for my son's emotional well-being. But I was at fault, I was the bad one. After many sessions, David summarised what he had learned by listening to us all, without the truth being told. Eventually, he confirmed my thoughts "I had to get out". My ex-husband was abusive, narcissistic, and alcoholic, he was never going to change. Another 6 months passed, I left with the boys' after 24 1/2 years of marriage. I was confused and sad about the failure of my marriage. I was a human, I was a bad person, amongst many things my head was spinning, but my heart was ready to move on. It was singularly one of the most difficult times in my life. The eldest had started cutting himself, the youngest was soiling/pooping his pants. 9 1/2 years later, I'm happy, settled, I've found 'me', have been successful as an individual, in my chosen fields, and life. My boys, now 27 and 23, have completed degrees at University both in professional jobs, independent, they are happy and have some great friends. Rest assured we have survived. The eldest hasn't spoken to his father for 91/2 years, the youngest maybe 3 times, and a couple of texts. As a mother, deep down I know my children bear the scars of a failed family life and fucked up parents. Sometimes the eldest and I talk about it, the youngest tucks it away. Thank you, David, you have been a lifesaver for me and my now-adult children. I cannot thank you enough for your understanding, professionalism, and guidance during a time in my life where I thought I was mad or going mad. Thank you Thank you.
I do wish this testimonial to remain confidential, to protect myself and my adult children individually. This is the truth, nothing but the truth, and is written from the heart. Thank you, David, I cannot thank you enough.
